Thursday, April 30, 2009

Hard To Read.


Someone told me the other day that I was hard to read...

I replied, "How so?"


They replied, "I don't know you just are..."


Yea I know, that makes no sense!!


Especially since they couldn't even give me an example of how I was sooo hard to read..



I would normally write it off and and keep it moving


But it really hit me this time, cause this wasn't the first person to tell me that..


So I stepped outside of myself for awhile and tried to see what others my see..


Maybe I would find something that I subconsciously give off that I may actually be oblivious to....


MY CONCLUSION...


In each separate situation I found that the person was expecting a specific type of behavior for a given situation..... and when I didn't act as expected, I became labeled "hard to read"...


It's like a science project... Each experiment has hypothesis, observation, and conclusion.


SO when:


Hypothesis=Observation, then conclusion = Able to be Read


OR when:


Hypothesis not = Observation, then conclusion= HARD TO READ


I find that most people's hypothesis' are based off pure personal/life experience, and they tend to group all people in a particular category.... Most of the time people's hypothesis are correct ...


HOWEVER, there are some select few that can't categorized and usually prove other's hypothesis' false.


NOT to sound arrogant or conceited (I'm really for from it), but I think myself to be among the select few that can't be categorized.


So yea, I'm cool with being hard to read...


I'm not a book though...


I'm just me...

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